Post date: Jun 25, 2012 9:40:40 PM
Who we are and what we do.. can make us a star for our society, or for that matter, the whole world..
Or, We can at least impress everyone who knows us.
For our friends and family, we can be Perfect - a star ! a role model !
...but sometimes it doesn't matter to you unless one person, you want to, is impressed with you.. that one is what matters not x-1.
This X can be everyone you know or even world population!
Similar is the case with what creates perfect relationships.
Many things like emotions, understanding, feelings etc. constitutes of what we call a relationship... as an outside observer of any relationship what we see is generally X-n perfect things... but we never observe those little n not-so-perfect things. ..and that is the reason we never understand what happened to a once-perfect-now-broken relationships... all we see is - everything was so perfect.. !
in reality ...those little n things is what matters... and they dominate so much that X-n perfect things (sometimes) become irrelevant.. and relations break !
We will always have these n things.. and only way to overcome that is - to burn our ego, burn ourselves a little to remove those n things.. We will have to burn down that n to 0. thats the way to a perfect relationship...
...we need to melt ourselves a little to create a joint.. like in gas welding...
"In oxy-fuel welding, a welding torch is used to weld metals. Welding metal results when two pieces are heated to a temperature that produces a shared pool of molten metal. The molten pool is generally supplied with additional metal called filler. Filler material depends upon the metals to be welded."
[Source: Wikipedia]
Similar to that welding process - We need to weld ourselves in relationships, melt a little, burn a little, use some fillers...
…and produce a shared pool of our self’s...
I remember, my professor told me in my first year of college (in TA lab) - If you weld properly... each parts may breakdown with time but that joint will never break ! never !
... I sound like a baba :)