Life should be effortless, I think there is a psychological vantage point from where if you see the life and world it makes complete sense! You can enjoy everything in life. I met a friend after a long time, and while we were talking, I mentioned - "I think if you don't feel blessed ...for whatever you have, at least once every day. Then probably, you are not doing something properly. You need to understand something better or do something about it." (People I had in mind don't have to think about money.) She didn't agree entirely, and I had to relax this definition to 'not necessarily every day but… you know what I mean' to make her agree. But I think the definition should actually be more often than once a day! I believe given the same scenario, some people are just wired to be happier than others.